Within episode, Dita and Dajana method the newest controversial topic out-of relationships/marrying outside the Albanian people
In this highly questioned procedure, Dita and you can Dajana approach the topic out of each other situations regarding views which is: the comfort and you will familiarity out of relationships/marrying during the society, additionally the greet and delightful extension of your culture which is due to matchmaking/marrying away from it. They read out an email sent out-of a great listener who shares her tale off relationships an excellent Latino men from inside the wonders for 5 age and how it’s got influenced its dating in the past, and you will wants ideas on dealing with which inevitable material with her family as she is prepared to has actually a top-top commitment that have him later. Dita and you can Dajana share their dating expertise in non-Albanian guys and define as to the reasons they on their own avoid off matchmaking Albanian boys. It discuss the pro’s and you can con’s that are included with this. It dissect the taboo subject by information as to the reasons Albanians getting it crazy tension up until now/wed in their community, and difficulty so it towards-going and you will outdated foregone conclusion by centering on the wonder that include getting the independence yet/get married The person you Like without the need to deal with people outcomes including as actually shunned, singled-away, discussed or-worst circumstances condition- are “disowned”. As to the reasons are unable to we accept everyone aside from battle, faith, gender, and you will society and commence to choose who i have a leading-peak relationship which have merely about precisely how it love and you will cure us? Exactly why is it so difficult having Albanians to grasp the notion you to definitely “outsiders” are only just like the wanting to show the brand new Albanian people and you will indulge themselves in it? Worries one to Albanians have out-of “losing” their community/way of living considering the society growing their limits simply exhibits the fresh new worry for the reality because of the rejecting those who would intend to day/wed away from society. Just how will they be supposed to show their people making use of their the fresh new-receive mate/nearest and dearest for many who avoid them just before they can begin to create thus? Why cannot Albanians play with the rigid trust regarding a rigorous-knit nearest and dearest moral thereby applying you to to people just who day/marry away from the area so you can desired all of them with unlock hands and invite individuals who aren’t Albanian so you’re able to accept new people as the really?
Contained in this episode, Dita and Dajana strategy brand new controversial subject regarding relationship/marrying away from Albanian culture
In this extremely asked topic, Dita and you will Dajana means the topic from both items away from viewpoints that’s: the coziness and expertise from matchmaking/marrying when you look at the society, plus the greeting and beautiful expansion of one’s culture that is due to relationships/marrying outside it. It read aloud a message sent away from a listener just who offers the woman story off dating an effective Latino men inside secret for 5 years and how it offers impacted their dating in earlier times, and you may requests some tips on dealing with this inevitable situation together with her members of the family just like the she is ready to features a leading-top partnership with him subsequently. Dita and you can Dajana express their particular relationship experience in low-Albanian boys and you can describe why it by themselves prevent out of matchmaking Albanian males. It talk about the pro’s and you may con’s that include so it. They dissect the very forbidden subject from the insights as to why Albanians getting so it wild pressure to date/marry in their community, in addition to complications it toward-going and you can outdated formality by the targeting the wonder that accompany having the independence to date/get married Who you Like without having to deal with any effects particularly as actually shunned, singled-away, discussed or-worst situation condition- are “disowned”. Why can not we deal with all people no matter what battle, faith, gender, and society and commence to determine who we have a leading-peak commitment which have only about it like and you may get rid of united states? Exactly why is it so very hard to possess Albanians to know the notion you to definitely “outsiders” are merely because desperate to show this new Albanian community and you will indulge themselves within it? Driving a car one to Albanians have off “losing” its community/living as a result of the society growing their perspectives just manifests the fresh fear towards the reality by the rejecting people who perform want to big date/wed outside of 
the society. How are they meant to express their community due to their new-located partner/family members for individuals who ignore him or her prior to they’re able to beginning to manage thus? Why cannot Albanians explore its rigorous trust off a tight-knit family members ethical and implement one to people which big date/marry outside the community so you can enjoy these with open hands and permit people who aren’t Albanian to embrace the brand new community due to the fact well?